It is a deviation of the spinal column that is curved in the shape of an “S” or a “C”, very often located at the level of the dorsal column. It can affect from a newborn to an adult.
The person with scoliosis has been suffering a strong devaluation from a close person for a long time.
Most of the time, this lack of support and approval comes from your parents and, to a greater degree, from your father or the person who represents you.
“I can only lean on one of my parents. One pulls me up and the other pulls me down”.
It can also be about my brother or sister who spends their life annoying me or making me feel less. It is rare but it also happens that I am receiving the devaluation from collateral (cousin, friend, classmate, work colleague, neighbour, etc.)
It is a situation in which I feel inferior, different, weaker, less intelligent, less strong, less secure.
The spine is the pillar of being; it represents our strength, our support, so presenting a deviation in the spine means that someone from my immediate environment is gradually destroying my self-esteem and security.
This devaluation necessarily implies that I live in permanent fear of being judged, criticized and disqualified.
That I feel afraid to make decisions, that I live in fear, and that of course, I feel resentment or hatred towards that person who devalues me and I just want to get away from them.
“I don’t know how to make a decision”, “I always seem to do things worse than others”, “This person does not love me, he has never loved me, and he hates me”Likewise, the cause may be due to a devaluation related to the movement; I have doubts about a movement that I must carry out. I don’t trust where I’m going or what I’m going to do or I have doubts about whether to do it or not.
In the same way, scoliosis warns me of an excess load, I am carrying something very heavy, real or symbolic, and also, I feel that this should not correspond to me. “I shouldn’t do this alone.”
It can also manifest itself in those children who realize that they have grown up and that they can no longer receive all the attention from their parents, such as when they were “younger”.
Above all, especially, if they have a younger brother and it is now this one who attracts all the affection of their parents. “They clearly prefer my brother or sister”
This weight is manifested by twisting the back, bending it sideways, preventing it from continuing to grow upwards and thus trying to be “shorter” and smaller. “I have no right to surpass the other”
Faced with this dynamic, the child is forced to overshadow in front of his brother or sister.
Scoliosis can also occur in adolescence: at this stage of life the adolescent is in search of an identity, he is no longer a child, but still lacks to be an adult, it is at this time that life and responsibilities that now he begins to face they are very heavy.
Due to this, he will adopt the tendency to compare himself with his siblings, cousins, friends, classmates, etc.
In these comparisons, he may have the impression that others are better than him, he will devalue himself and this will be expressed through scoliosis.
“My responsibilities scare me; I’m undecided in my orientation”
In girls, scoliosis can express an imaginary fear of being judged by men when they become a woman.
People with scoliosis have usually had to mature much earlier than a normal child. You have been charged with responsibilities that do not correspond to you at such a young age.
Therefore, unconsciously, they intuit that “on their shoulders” are burdens that do not belong to them. And deep down, they want to run away from them. “I transport loads that are not mine”, “I deserved more attention, love and care”
Scoliosis is only seen by “junk kids.” We need to pay attention to that fact, both in the Sense Project and in the transgenerational one.
They are children born to receive and repair all the “filth” of the family, its faults, its defects, its secrets.
From a very young age, they are ignored, not cared for or fed as they should be. These children are often born into families that lack a structure based on love.
It is necessary to observe the affected vertebrae and associate them with the corresponding ribs, to know if the conflict is with the father, the brothers or even the children.
If I am not aware of having experienced something similar to the aforementioned, I must resort to my genealogical tree and the Sense Project with which I was conceived.
I have to find out if while I was in my mother’s womb, she suffered the death of her father, mother or other father figure that made her feel unsupported, weak, unsupported and, as a consequence, I have been programmed to be her emotional support, which represents a heavy burden for me and that is why my spine deviates.
Or maybe, it could be that my mom suffered an accident in which she probably twisted her body, especially her back, to avoid the blow, so as not to be hurt.
In the same way, I have to find out if my mother experienced the pregnancy as a heavy burden.
When my mother is not aware of having lived through any of the experiences mentioned, then I have to resort to my family tree and I have to look if I have an affinity with an ancestor who had to bear a very heavy “burden” throughout his life, for example, having to bear all the responsibility on the family.
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This is so relatable, i can't believe how accurate it is! I'm so glad i found this enlightening article. Thank you.
Sadly but this article reminded me my painful past . Thank youuuu…..what now?
I can't believe how acurated this article is compared to my life
Wow! Thanks.
Was hard to read but thank you very much
Wow. This has hit home. Throughout some really super rough times my body developed scoliosis, I never knew I had it until an adult after those times subsided- this fills article fills my heart.
This is literally spot on I am now 20 finding this out just from a thought I looked up on google glad I found this information if anybody has info on the ribs and how it contributes please email me
This is far too relatable, I’m actually crying. Damn.
Hello, on this website you can find information about the ribs. Regards
Very accurate and to the point. I was definitely "THE GARBAGE CHILD" expected to fix the family. Thank God I released that title in 2007 when my Mother died. When she died I buried the Garbage Child
Congratulations. Good personal work. A hug
thank you!! i am a brazilian girl and i also have scoliosis… i your article was very helpful to me
But which bent side represents the mother and which the father? I had my upper spine bent to the right, but that part could get fixed with physiotherapy, my lower spine on the other side is bent to the left and hasn't recovered…
Hi, if you are right-handed, the right represents the mother and the left, the father.
If you are left-handed, the other way around.
Regards
I'm right handed…that means I still got issues with my father right? 🙁
Yes, maybe it could be with the father figure, with the authority. It is necessary to observe the affected vertebrae and associate them with the corresponding ribs, to know if the conflict is with the father, mother, siblings, cousins or even children.
The most important thing is to know that it is a devaluation on the part of a close person.
It is your responsibility to raise your self-esteem and self-confidence.
Regards
In the metaphysical ir spiritual teaching left is feminine and right is masculine, left for spiritual and right for physical, I hope this helps ❤️
Hi, Camille, I think it's a bit more complicated than what you say, you have to see it from several perspectives. I invite you to read the post: https://www.emotionsandbody.com/2019/05/body-right-and-left-sides.html
I was grown up in a narcissistic family and reading everyone's comments it looks like they all have been as well where they have been the scapegoat. Its very painful being in this situation. Having a health issue is more than enough having a family issue on top just makes your life like hell.
I am going through a spiritual awakening..suddenly i felt the call to look up if my bend in the spine has something to do with a spiritual background…yes here it is!!
This doesnt have any deformities on me physically only an xray report shows the fact.
Like the others, the information that you reported was very accurate. I was the oldest: wrong skin color, lived in fear due to mental illness in family,, not favored, not feeling loved, and more. I did get the musical talent in the genealogy.
This feels very accurate. I went to live with my dad at the age of 8, my mum wanted to keep me, I’ve always felt a mixture of guilt and resentment at her. I also spent 15 yrs abroad, and notice how much she triggers me still (so the wanting to run away from her rings true). I Know deep down that my scoliosis is linked to my relationship with her and I simply do not how to heel it. I’ve dived in fascia work lately and had nightmares that confirm how I feel about her. The bit about responsibilities also rings true, I’ve always quit (jobs, studies, hobbies) when the going gets tough/ I have to be accountable. I simply move on to the next thing. Anyway, lots to unpack still, even as a grown up! Many thanks for your article.
I hate my father to the point I want him killed but I only set this intention once he harmed my mother physically, it just hurts so much especially when you are in this family were you feel worthless and feeling anger alot around my father. Total worthless and bringing the worst in me that I hadn’t known to myself and bring the worst after the worst and the bad sides of everyone around everytime. I’m tired of crying and feeling anger to the point that being happy is very foreign. There is not much opportunity here to move out. I’ve become pretty much like Johan from anime series “Monster”. My only true happiness is only when being by myself. Thanks for this article it all relates.