Hemorrhoids are swollen veins in the anus and lower rectum.
This part of the body is related to the place where I sit, where I put or rest my butt and feel comfortable, at ease, happy.
Therefore, the biological meaning of having hemorrhoids is for me to leave that place.
To go away from that territory where I am sitting because I am not happy.
Where is my place within my family?
“I don’t have my place”, “I want to leave this place”, “I am forced to put my butt in another seat”, I feel excluded, I can’t find my place,
In the same way, the anus is also biologically related to identity, to the recognition of who I am for others.
Especially, I want to be recognized by my family within my territory (home, work, team, etc.).
This can be seen very clearly in the animal world.
Whenever two animals meet, they sniff each other’s anus and from there they obtain all the information and recognition of the other.
When a hemorrhoid appears, it means that I am experiencing a lack of recognition.
When we have doubts about our real identity and about the recognition of that identity by others, we can experience it as a dishonor, a shame, a great humiliation.
This causes us a lot of anger, but we repress it just as we hide the feeling of not being recognized.
Who am I? “I don’t know what identity I have”, “I am not recognized in my family”,
“Others leave me aside”, “Nobody cares about me”. “I don’t know what I am doing in this family”, “I have lost my seat, someone is taking my place, my place”,
“They have taken my place, I do not feel placed in the family”.
On the other hand, since it is a problem in the veins, it can be considered a symptom similar to varicose veins.
Therefore, a hemorrhoid appears in the repair phase of a conflict in the veins (blood).
Blood symbolically represents the family and tells us about a conflict of devaluation within the family.
Unconsciously we want to release a “toxic morsel”, a family dirt that needs to be cleaned up.
Example: I have a relative who is an alcoholic, a thief, an abuser, etc.
“I want someone in my family to leave my territory.”
Likewise, they can be the consequence of a conflict experienced with resentment within the territory.
Perhaps, due to some bad action that they did to me and that I cannot forget or forgive.
It could be a betrayal that I have experienced at a loving, social, family, work level, etc.
Maybe I have felt deceived, abandoned, because they promised me something and they did not fulfill it or perhaps, they replaced me with another person, etc.
And, furthermore, with the mitigating factor that:
“I don’t deserve what they did to me; I would never have done it”,
“They broke my heart, they killed me, they destroyed my life”
And because of this, I suffer, I scream, I curse.
I can live normally in the present, pretending that that experience was forgotten; but is still latent inside me, I have not let go, I have not forgotten.
“I don’t want to forgive, I keep it.”
Likewise, they can tell me that I am experiencing a feeling of submission in relation to a person.
Or a situation in which I feel devalued, as if I were a nonentity.
When hemorrhoids bleed they have a very direct relationship with the maternal figure.
It can indicate to me that I still need her presence and opinion.
Fear of being abandoned by the mother.
Hemorrhoids can also appear after a separation conflict and/or loss of the mother.
The vein symbolically represents the mother: I don’t want to go home (blood family), it sucks to come home and…
“I want to get rid of my mother”
Hemorrhoids in pregnant women: What will be my place now that my child is coming into the world? What will be my identity?
Will I continue to be my husband’s wife or my child’s mother?
The mother needs to adapt her life to this new situation and stress manifests itself in this way in some cases.
What situation have you experienced with a lot of anger in which you feel that you do not have your place or that you are not recognized?
Is there any member who negatively affects the family image?
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