As it is a discomfort that affects the blood, the heart and its arteries and ventricles, we are talking about the emotional conflicts related to the house (heart) and with the family (people with the same blood).
Like the rest of pathologies, in which the blood is present, it speaks to us about the conflicts of devaluation and or separation, within the family environment.
If someone has hypertension, it means that they have lived or are experiencing a devaluation conflict with respect to her family.
This means that for his family it is not important what he does, what he is, how he is, etc.
It is a lack of recognition towards him, on the part of his family.
In the same way, he may also be living a situation in which people he does not like to stay in his house or come to live in his house.
And even, that his family interacts with people who are not to his liking, such as girlfriends or husbands of his children, partners of his brothers, parents, etc.
Or, on the contrary, the pressure can express a desire to want to keep the family together.
In many cases it coincides that there have been stories of separations, abandonments, etc. within the clan.
All people with high blood pressure have a tendency to control and are afraid of losing that control and that the family will separate or divide.
For this reason, when a conflict arises that puts said union at risk, the brain increases blood pressure with the symbolic objective of making the fight more effective and giving me more strength to keep the family together.
However, since I do not dare to fight, the pressure remains high waiting for me to take that action.
These conflicts can be experienced in masculine or feminine.
Depending on how a person experiences his own conflict, it will affect one organ or another and show different symptoms.
There are mainly two types of hypertension: central and peripheral.
Central arterial hypertension (masculine) affects the ventricles of the heart that are responsible for pumping blood with force so that it reaches the extremities furthest from the heart.
People who suffer from it have warm hands and somehow they leave the door open all the time, I open the doors of my heart (house) because “I want someone to leave my house.”
In peripheral hypertension (female): Hands are cold. The arteries that go to the heart are pressed, so that the blood does not enter or leave the heart.
Heart = House, therefore: “I do not want someone to enter my house” or “I do not want someone to leave my house”
In this case, the conflict is related to restricting the entry or exit of members of the house:
We must bear in mind that for our unconscious that member can be ourselves.
In both cases there is always something that prevents one from completely relaxing, that there are situations of sustained tension in the environment or that this tension is reflected inside, because people who suffer from hypertension are usually sensitive people, with great mental activity and with a tendency to dramatize some situations.
The hypertensive person is usually very emotional and is influenced by the past, which constantly relives remembering affective wounds that have not healed or resolved.
You have the feeling that you are threatened with harm and believe that you have to constantly be prepared for any danger.
Hypertension indicates the great tension, in which he lives due to his desire to seek a solution to his problems, but he cannot find a way out because he does not dare to face conflicts, he has difficulties to take action.
One of the blocking conflicts that will prevent awareness and the step to action is precisely the notion of family fidelity.
They care a lot about the happiness of their loved ones and create a great “tension” trying to find the right way of providing it, which sometimes makes it difficult to talk about the issue and take action, because they are afraid of hurting someone or creating a conflict.
One of the fears associated with hypertension is that of death.
The hypertensive person is afraid that it will come to him before having made his life plan.
Not knowing how to deal with his concern, he discharges it by focusing all his attention on the outside world, leading a dynamic, tense and over-active life, which causes an “increase in pressure”.
Other possible emotional conflicts that can cause high blood pressure are:
Conflict of intellectual devaluation and loss of territory lived as a submission to an authority. For not having been intelligent, for having reasoned badly, I lose a territory that I considered mine. It can refer to an affective, work or related territory with children. “I need to be stronger”
I raise the pressure to rise to the occasion and be able to face the challenge that is presented to me.
I don’t feel powerful enough to tackle the everyday problems and some special ones that I have now.
That is why I raise the pressure to have more energy and to be able to face those problems with a higher percentage of success.
I worry about my partner, my son, my house, expenses, the health of my mother, father, etc.
I live a permanent emotion of not failing, of having to comply with everything and everyone, of being the first to solve everything and also being recognized for it. “I cannot feel that I could not”.
Overcrowding problem: because there is too much people living under the same roof.
Conflict of resistance to leaving home, the territory (to live abroad, to marry…).
Need to go further (I put more pressure, more strength to move forward). For example: “I have to go to my parents’ house to take care of my brother who is disabled”
Stress related to competitiveness, the need to be the best or to be the first.
Balance conflict between dad and mom. If the systolic and diastolic pressures are far apart:
“I want to separate mommy and daddy.” If they are very close: “I want to bring dad and mom together.”
The pressure can rise after an experience of heartbreak. I am bitter and disappointed in love and have closed my heart.
Maybe they cheated on me and I don’t believe in love anymore or maybe I feel too old to find a new love, but I long for “someone” to enter my house, my heart, my family.
If the kidneys are affected: it indicates a conflict related to a real liquid that is present, water (sea, river), alcohol, etc., or symbolic, for problems regarding money (liquidity).
My kidneys can also be affected if I feel that I have lost my family references.
When hypertension appears in pregnant women: “I do not want a new member to enter my house (heart).
Unconsciously, you feel that the arrival of your child may cause problems or inconveniences in your life.
The future mother may be afraid of losing a job, not being fulfilled, etc.
Despite all these data regarding the emotional cause of hypertension, sometimes, its resolution can be complicated, because there are several organs that can be involved, at the same time, such as the heart, kidney, adrenals and arteries, requiring a more detailed study.
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