CREATION OF THE EGO: Structure of the abandonment
A person can be considered to have an structure of the abandonment wound when it contains many typical features of the oral period of life, that is, the period between three months and up to eighteen months of the child.
During this period, the main source of the search for pleasure and, at the same time, conflict and frustration is the mouth.
At this stage, the child is not motivated by pleasures from other regions of the body, his fun is focused on sucking his fingers, biting any object he has at hand, chewing, vocalizing, that is, all his attention is focused on the mouth, he perceives himself and the outside world through oral function.
EXPERIENCES OF OTHER LIVES THAT BRINGS IN HIS MEMORY:
People who present this structure of the abandonment nature are very likely to have passed, in previous lives, through experiences of loss, scarcity or lack of what is essential for life.
Their survival has been threatened by lack of food, water, medical attention, etc.
Surely they were born in a place or in the bosom of a poor family in which the food they had was not enough to feed the clan and they have even been able to die as a result of this lack of food.
Others, on the other hand, if it did not cause their death, they have had to face situations of rationing, of deprivation, which have caused the feeling of never having received enough to settle in their unconscious.
On the other hand, there are also other psycho-emotional experiences that can be found at the origin of this oral character structure and that are related to the feeling of having been physically or psychologically abandoned in a previous life.
Of course, the feeling of having been abandoned entails a lack of affection and protection that can cause them the same pain as when they have been deprived of food, although in some cases it has not been so serious as to have caused their death.
The fear of lack, abandonment or loss, together with a feeling of dissatisfaction and emptiness, and a deep feeling of bitterness, will condition your next life on earth.
These experiences will build the foundation of your character.
The energy not integrated and accumulated in the unconscious will be in charge of attracting and manifesting the appropriate conditions in which the same type of situations that occurred in the previous life are reproduced, so that they can be seen, transcended and integrated into your soul.
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